In this series, we will talk about choosing the right Asian online dating service. There are hundreds of asian online dating services, some are free but most of them are based on paid subscription. It will be a difficult task for you to choose the right one. Below are some tips to help you make the decision easier.

Important points to look out for
You would not want to waste your time on bogus dating sites that have fake members profiles. Therefore the important points are:

• always look for reputable Asian Online dating services that are in service for a long period of time. Some of the established Asian online dating service includes FilipinaHeart.com, Filipino FriendFinder.com, ThaiLoveLinks.com, Match.com, ChnLove.com, AsianEuro.com
• always read the online dating service Privacy Policy, About Us page and the FAQ page. This will give you a general idea of how that particular online dating service works.
• The most important thing is to sign up as a FREE member of the Asian online dating service you preferred so that you can have a test run of how efficent it is. Most of the asian online dating services offer Free or standard member sign up.

What Women HATE Most About Single Guys

If you listen to a group of attractive, single women talking alone over dinner or drinks, the
topic will always turn to MEN.

And in most cases, it will eventually turn into a RANT session about how hard
it is to find good men to date…

Which will lead to a FULL-ON RAG SESSION about men in general…

…And wind up with a detailed list of all the traits guys have that are ANNOYING
AS HELL.

The reality is that single women have an entire laundry list of traits, qualities,
and characteristics that they HATE in single guys.

Did you know this?

I didn’t think so.

Well, the truth is that up until a few years ago, I didn’t know this either.

So take heart in the idea that you’re about to learn something that most men on
this planet will DIE not knowing.

My hope is that what I’m about to share with you will change how you interact
with women FOREVER… and help you meet and date more of the kinds of women you’re
interested in.

Onward.

FRIENDSHIPS AND ROMANCE

For women, friendships and romantic relationships are two separate things. They
are NOT the same.

One can lead to another, but it’s RARE when it happens.

Remember that.

One CAN lead to another, but it’s RARE.

“Romantic” relationships are very different from “friend” relationships.

While most men would sleep with most of their female “friends” if the woman “came
on” to them, most women would NOT sleep with most men that they consider “just
friends”.

But why is this?

How do women differentiate between “just friends” and “I’ll be intimate with you”?

And why is it so hard to become “more than friends” with a woman you’ve been “just
friends” with for a long time?

The answer to this riddle is very interesting to me.

I believe that the answer comes down to understanding HOW women “know” when they
want to “be intimate” with a man… and, even MORE

importantly, understanding how women “know” when they DON’T want to “be intimate”
with a man…

The thing that tells a woman whether the guy she’s with is “friend” material or
“lover” material is how she FEELS.

It’s a combination of EMOTIONAL feelings and PHYSICAL feelings.

It is NOT logic.

She might USE logic to “rationalize” her decision… or she might USE logic to
SOUND like she has a good reason for either “being with” or “not being with” a particular guy.

But don’t let that distract you.

Logic isn’t important AT ALL in this context.

So let me say this another way.

A woman FEELS something emotionally and/or physically, then she uses those FEELINGS as the basis for her “decisions” and actions with a particular guy.

If she feels that “Ewwww Yuck!” feeling, then her “logical” conclusion will probably
not be that she wants to date the guy in question.

If she feels that “It’s Gettin’ Hot In Here” feeling, then her “logical” conclusion
will probably be that this guy is interesting and attractive, and a good “choice”
to date. At this point she’ll take ACTION on her feelings and thoughts…

It goes like this:

FEEL—>THINK—>ACT

First the FEELING, then the THOUGHT… and THEN the action.

Now, with this in mind, let me ask you an important question:

How do most guys behave around women that they’re “romantically” interested in?

And another:

What do they do to get the woman that’s the object of their desires to be with
them?

Take a few minutes to think about this. Make a list if you have paper and pen
handy.

I’m serious. I’ll wait.

Come back when you’re finished.

Now take a look at your list.

I’ll bet that almost every single thing on your list was something “external”.

In other words, your list probably contains things like “Take her to dinner” and
“Give her compliments” and “Buy her flowers” and “Call her often”.

These are all things that demonstrate that he’s INTERESTED.

They are NOT things that trigger those emotional and physical feelings inside
of a woman that tell her that THIS IS THE GUY.

In other words, men try to use “props” to LET A WOMAN KNOW HE’S INTERESTED…

…HOPING that when the woman sees these displays she’ll be interested in him.

Almost NONE of the things men do to court women make women FEEL ANYTHING even
remotely similar to “Attraction” and “Arousal”.

Of course, you know this.

You’ve probably done this stuff about a bazillion times. I have, too. I know what
it’s like to try OVER AND OVER to let a particular woman know that I’m interested…
only to have her NOT RESPOND in a “romantic” way.

The PROBLEM with this kind of thing is that it makes TWO HUGE MISTAKES at once.

First, it’s just the plain-old wrong way to go. Telling or showing a woman that
you “like her” has no effect on how she feels about YOU.

In the moment it sure seems to make sense… “If I show her how I feel, she’ll
return the feelings”.

Duh.

Like I said, it seems like the right thing to do in the moment (when your inner
little girl has a big fat crush). But it’s not… it will have NO effect on her
feelings for you.

And second, it communicates clearly that YOU DON’T GET IT. It tips a woman off
INSTANTLY that you’re not hip to what’s going… and it kills your chances with her.

Say what?

You mean that doing nice things for women, and trying to show how you feel can
actually HURT your chances with a woman?

Yea, it can.

Look, if you’ve been dating a woman exclusively for six months, and her birthday
comes… it’s OK to buy her a gift and tell her that you like spending time with
her.

YOU’RE ALREADY IN A RELATIONSHIP.

But if you’ve known a woman for six DAYS and you try this kind of thing, you’re
going to shoot yourself in the foot.

Women are EXPERTS at recognizing men who DON’T GET IT. And if you DON’T get it,
PLUS you’re trying to compensate for the fact that you don’t get it with gifts and compliments, then you’re REALLY screwed (or not screwed, as the case may be).

Remember what I’m about to tell you.

Burn it into your mind.

Write it on a sticky-note and put it on your computer monitor…

SINGLE, ATTRACTIVE WOMEN WATCH MEN TRY TO WIN THEM OVER ALL DAY LONG. THEY KNOW WHEN A GUY DOESN’T “GET IT”… AND

THEY’RE ANNOYED WHEN A GUY WHO DOESN’T “GET IT” JUST KEEPS TRYING AND TRYING AND TRYING.

Keep in mind that single, attractive women watch guys do this stuff 24/7. They
shake their pretty heads and say “He doesn’t get it… He doesn’t get it… He
doesn’t get it” over and over and over.

The point is that if you DON’T GET IT, then nothing you do is going to work for
you.

The problem is bigger than you can imagine, and you’re going to need to take a
totally different road to get where you’re going…

WHAT ATTRACTIVE WOMEN HATE MOST ABOUT SINGLE GUYS…

Let’s return to where we started.

There are a few particular things that REALLY annoy single, attractive women.

One of the reasons that these things annoy women is because they’re DEAL KILLERS.

A woman can like everything about you, but if you do these things (or even ONE
of these things), it can DESTROY your chances of success with a particular woman.

Here are a few of the BIG things that single women hate:

1) Giving Up Your Status In Exchange For Her Attention And Approval

If I had to describe the one single thing that both annoys women and DESTROYS
a guy’s chances, it would be this. It has taken me a long time to see this particular pattern, but it’s EVERYWHERE.

Men, in effect, say “Hi, I want your approval and attention. I’m willing to let
YOU be the one who’s in control… and let YOU call the shots… and do anything
to please YOU… if you’ll give me your attention and approval”.

But the problem is that women DON’T WANT you to give up your status and “manliness”.

Women aren’t ATTRACTED to men who act weak and tentative.

Women secretly HATE IT when a guy does something to demonstrate that he’ll give
away his power in return for approval.

THEY HATE IT!

I could literally write an entire book on this one single concept.

Take a few minutes to think this one over, and maybe write down the ways that
you make this mistake with women.

More importantly, think about how you’re going to STOP DOING IT IMMEDIATELY.

2) Being Needy, Clingy, And Insecure

When one person “clings” to another person “psychologically”, the person who is
being “clinged to” RESENTS and REJECTS the needy, clingy emotional parasite…

This is WUSS behavior at its worst.

If a guy is on the phone with a girl he just met, and she says “Hey, I have to
go”, he might say “Aw, well… um… OK. Um, will you call me when you get home?”.

Or let’s say a guy and a girl are out on their first date, and they’re walking
around in a large department store.

Most guys will follow the woman everywhere, and not leave her side for a minute.

If she wanders away, he’ll come find her IMMEDIATELY.

He’ll stay physically close to her, as if he’s afraid she’ll leave without him.

And an even worse example is a guy who is so emotionally insecure that he actually
ASKS a woman to tell him that he’s nice, fun, interesting, etc.

“Do you think I’m interesting?”

“Do you think we could ever have a relationship?”

“Am I your type?”

Women HATE this stuff. It makes them shiver with the heebie-jeebies. It makes
them want to RUN AWAY.

3) Not Leading - And Even Worse, Trying To Get Her To Lead

Women have WUSS-DAR.

One of the things that triggers a woman’s WUSS-DAR is a man who FOLLOWS.

The REAL problem is that most women won’t try to LEAD naturally.

So you’ve got a situation where a man is trying to FOLLOW a woman who isn’t LEADING.

He’s looking for little cues so he knows where to go and what to do… but he isn’t getting them.

So what does he do?

He ASKS for them!

He says “So, I was thinking of maybe taking you to Olive Garden for dinner…
how does that sound?”.

Everything about the way he asks says to the woman “I’m trying to figure out what
you want me to do… please help me know how you want me to act, where you want
me to take you, and what you want me to say”.

This is ATTRACTION DEATH!

men who don’t lead, and even worse, try to get a woman to lead, ANNOY THE HELL
OUT OF SINGLE WOMEN.

They HATE IT!

4) Using Insecure, Approval-Seeking, Low-Status Posture, Gestures, Voice Tone and Body Language

There’s a term that single, attractive, in-demand women use to describe men who
use weak, approval-seeking posture, gestures, comments and mannerisms…

The term is “NICE”.

“He’s nice… but… there’s no chemistry.”

This is one of those areas that’s not easy to talk about.

Since SO DAMN MANY GUYS do this stuff, it’s almost impossible to explain.

It’s like trying to tell a fish that they’re not going to get anywhere in life if they stay wet.

The fish doesn’t even KNOW it’s wet in the first place.

But let me try.

This is important.

Go spend a day observing couples.

Go places where couples that have just met spend time together.

Bars, clubs, coffee shops, whatever.

Now watch the GUYS.

Watch how they lean towards the women.

Watch how they raise their eyebrows in exaggerated response to women’s comments.

Watch how they slump over, let their shoulders fall forward, and smile fake-ly
at whatever the women say.

If you’re close enough, listen to how men ask questions and make comments with
a voice tone that says “I’m insecure and I’m trying to be extra nice to compensate for it”.

You’ll see it EVERYWHERE.

In fact, you’ll see it so much that you’ll probably write me back to tell me that
I’m the one who’s crazy, and that since it happens so much, it must be “the right
way”.

Well, it’s not.

If there’s one thing that triggers an attractive single woman’s WUSS-DAR, it’s
a man’s posture, gestures, eye contact, voice tone, etc.

It all happens in an INSTANT.

Women read this stuff and interpret it as instantly and accurately as you read and interpret the cover of Playboy.

NO ANALYSIS NECESSARY.

I’d say that probably 90% of all men alive today INSTANTLY disqualify themselves
with women because of this problem.

Their voice tone, gestures, posture, etc. TELEGRAPH the message that they’re a
WUSS.

They do a thousand weird little things to let a woman know that they’re uncomfortable
and “not being themselves”.

And you guessed it…

Single women HATE IT!

5) Not Understanding That She’s A Woman And You’re A Man

I’m about to get philosophical on your ass, so be cool.

When it comes down to it, most men don’t understand women.

But the REAL kicker is that most men don’t understand MEN, either!

Most guys don’t know what it’s like to get in touch with their MALE NATURE.

Combine these two issues, and you get a guy who behaves in ways that DO NOT trigger
ATTRACTION in women.

Women have a “nature”. A female nature.

Men also have a “nature”. You guessed it, it’s a MALE nature.

Women are coy. They like to play hard to get. They like to enjoy the chase. They
love anticipation. They love to “let a guy catch them”…

Men are competitive. Men are dominant. Men like to play rough games, win things,
and rule their territory.

Well guess what?

Most men don’t BEHAVE like men when they’re in the presence of a woman that they
“like”.

And since most men don’t understand female human nature, they don’t demonstrate
that they “get it” when they’re with women that they “like”.

Women like men. Men like women. There are POWERFUL causes at play here.

When you’re around a woman you like, don’t act like a GIRLY-MAN. It’s not sexy,
and it’s not attractive…

And single women HATE IT!

6) Not Being Interesting To Be Around

Underneath most behavior that I see most guys acting out is a “core belief” that
goes like this:

“I don’t believe that an attractive woman would want to be around me just because
she enjoys my presence… so I make up for it by saying and doing certain things
that I hope she’ll enjoy… and if she enjoys those other things enough, then maybe she’ll want to spend more time with me.”

Heavy, man.

Well guess what? Most attractive single women KNOW that if a guy isn’t interesting
to be around, they she’s eventually going to go CRAZY being around him.

In other words, no amount of material gifts, compliments, dinners, and other “displays”
will EVER compensate for a lack of BEING INTERESTING.

Here’s a profound thought:

I and several other guys I know have many women who call us often… just because
they enjoy being around us.

These women would be happy just to be in the same room with us… and enjoy our
company.

And yes, these women CALL US.

Often.

Material gifts, food, flowers, and other “displays” have ZERO lasting value to
a woman when it comes to how she FEELS about you…

An attractive single woman wants a guy who LIGHTS HER UP. She wants to FEEL GOOD.

She wants mystery… she wants to laugh… she wants a challenge… she wants
sexual tension…

If you’re using compliments, gifts, food, and other “displays” to get a woman’s
attention… you need to ask yourself a tough question:

Is it because you don’t believe that a woman would want to be around you just
to be around you?

Because if you don’t know how to be INTERESTING to a woman, then no amount of
compensation is going to fix the problem.

If you’re boring, predictable, and uninteresting, then you’re never going to have
women calling YOU to hang out.

Oh, and women HATE IT.

7) Not Understanding Attraction

This is a BIGGIE.

You hear me talking about it all the time, right?

Maybe now that you’ve read this newsletter you’ll have a better context to understand
what I’m about to tell you…

If you “get it” with women, it’s SUPER INTERESTING and ATTRACTIVE to them.

Women can INSTANTLY FEEL IT when they’re with a guy who “gets it”.

Women know very quickly if they’re talking to a guy who understands himself and
women… and who enjoys creating and building sexual tension.

Women know if a guy speaks the SECRET LANGUAGE of “Sexual Communication”.

If he doesn’t, then she stops all communication on that level.

If he does, then it continues.

ATTRACTION Isn’t A Choice.

Attraction is an emotional and physical RESPONSE… and you can’t “convince” a
woman to feel it with logic, gifts, and NICENESS.

Attraction is the result of a woman meeting a man who understands how attraction
works… and who knows what to do in each specific situation to progress to the next level.

The PROBLEM with ATTRACTION, and with success with women in general is that the
things you need to DO to be successful are NOT OBVIOUS.

They’re “counter intuitive”, in many cases.

In other words, they’re the OPPOSITE of what you’d THINK would make sense.

You have to do things like CREATE TENSION… stop doing something that she likes…
give her time to miss you… etc.

And if you don’t understand ATTRACTION, a woman is going to KNOW IT.

And guess what?

Single women HATE IT when a man doesn’t understand ATTRACTION and how to communicate on this “other level”.

Now that I’ve shared the mistakes, you need the next piece of the puzzle. You
need to get an education on how attraction works for women… and the RIGHT things
to do up front to give her those emotional/physical feelings inside.

Right now you’re probably feeling that excited “Ah Ha!” feeling.

That’s because you understand something at a different level… you’ve used your
mind to understand something complex… and you feel good about bettering yourself.

Well this is just the TIP of the iceberg.

As educational as this has been, this is only the beginning.

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Well, I’ve spent the last several years of my life figuring out exactly what does
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An estimated 67% to 93% of human communication (according to university researchers) is non-verbal, and your body language reveals your internal emotional state. Whether someone’s parents just died, or whether they just got promoted to CEO… you can tell by observing their body language.

So, as a man who tries to pick up and seduce women, you should be mindful of what you’re communicating non-verbally.

Body language consists of the following:

- Your movements. They should be nonchalant, as if you’re so fabulously successful that there’s rarely a reason for you to rush nor try to impress anybody. Move through the world doing what you want and assuming that others will follow.

- The displacement of your body. Your arms and legs should be spread out. Don’t be afraid to take up space.

- Your voice. It should have a calm, soothing, and commanding effect. Don’t speak too fast or strain your voice.

- Your face. Keep your facial muscles relaxed. Never tense your jaw, and only rarely should you frown or wrinkle your brow.

- Your shoulders. Keep them relaxed like they’d be if you just got a massage. Don’t raise them up like a nervous person.

I would even go as far as to say that you body language is more important than anything you say, because if your body language doesn’t match what you say, then you won’t succeed with women.

You see, if you tell a woman stories that convey your confidence, but at the same time you slump over and fold your arms, then you come across as fake.

I’ve picked up women before merely through the use of my body language. For example, a couple months ago I was at a coffee shop that I frequent, lounging on the couch, arms spread out, with my feet up on the table.

The mindset I had was that I felt so comfortable that it was as if I were in my home lounging on my own couch. It was as if I owned the coffee shop.

The net result was that a girl sitting near me put down her book and started engaging me in random small talk.

(Whenever an attractive girl you don’t know starts a random conversation with you, you should ALWAYS assume that she’s attracted to you. This is because women generally won’t risk the whole male-female dynamic, especially with a stranger, unless they feel attraction.)

The conversation went on for awhile, I got her number, called her that night, and a few days later we met and after several hours went to her place, where I spent the night. (We finally had sex in the morning.)

The bottom line though is that she became initially attracted to me and approached me because of my body language.

Now, of course body language isn’t enough. You also must have an internal alpha male mindset that’s consistent with your body language.

But make no mistake about it… if your body language conveys confidence, then your mood will also shift to become more confident. And have you ever noticed how when you walk with a spring in your step, you feel more upbeat?

Conversely, when you cast your eyes down and drag your feet, you feel depressed. So your mindset also follows the body language that you adopt.

So, in conclusion, be an alpha male with your mindset and your body language. Be in a woman’s personal space and be sexual and interested in her, but at the same time don’t be needy or desperate for her attention. Just be comfortable and enjoy yourself.

And when your body language conveys that, it means you’ll later be comfortable and enjoying yourself… with the woman.

Download “How to Become an Alpha Male”, a seduction success system for men that will have you displaying body language that attracts women like a magnet.

Let’s be honest with ourselves, when it comes to knowing what women want, aren’t we all a bit clueless? But when it comes to online dating, our confidence levels soar — because we think that we could hide behind the screen and hook up to all our dream partners.

So in order to set things straight and make sure you would not deviate from the correct path, here are some inside secret tips right from the “horses’ mouth” on what women want to see in your online dating profile.

1. Brains
You do not need not write like hemmingway in order to demonstrate a hearty dose of intelligence. Most women won’t admit or notice that they DO care about your level of IQ anyhow. So the best practices is to proofread, do a spell check when writing your online dating profile. You only have to appear to be highly intelligent therefore the words you choose to write in your online dating profile are extremely important. To further enhance, use a online thesaurus.

2. Brawn and muscles
You need not pump iron and train to be like arnold. But it will be to your added advantage if you could write a bit of exercise regime into your profile. Even a walk in the park counts, eh? Everyone loves a healthy person don’t they?

3. Competence
You don’t mean competence in that particular field? Nah, not that. Women like their men to be respectfully employed, not to a drug dealer. You don’t have to offer your full suit resume, but let it be known to the other party that you are not idle and idolent either.

4. Presentable
When you post your profile picture, show only your face with a sincere grin. Avoid shots of your body or generally unkempt.

5. Humor
Preview how charming you’ll be when you first meet face-to-face. Be silly but not absurd. Self-deprecating but not pitiful. Strike that balance between droll and dorky.

6. Originality
Don’t be a cookie-cutter guy. Read other men’s profiles and take note of common, tired turns of phrase. The competition is fierce, so try to stand out in the crowd.

7. Feelings
It’s not necessary to compose an original poem or to paraphrase a Shakespeare sonnet, but it would be nice to let her know you’re not a heartless Neanderthal. Exhibit some warmth and gentleness.

8. Confidence
If you don’t believe in yourself, how can she believe in you? Be proud of your career, your comedy and your cunning.

9. Honesty
Women have radars that is so sensitive that they will sense it when you’re smudging with reality. Don’t lie about your physical asset or your bank account assets. At some point, the truth will be exposed.

10. Brevity
You’ve got summarisea short but in depth profile. Try to write as though you are speaking to ‘her’ and everything will flow from there.

Here are some of comments straight from women who had been asked this question:

“What does women want in men?” 

Generally speaking I think we are looking for the same things.

1. Someone we connect with. The one who gets us and we get them. One who accepts you for who you are and vice versa.

2. Someone who has similar values.

3. Someone with similar goals, a similar view of the future.

4. Someone you can be proud of and who is proud of you also.

5. Someone with whom there is mutual respect.

6. Someone with whom their is mutual trust.

7. Someone you want and who wants you.

8. Someone with whom you have some common interests, hobbies, etc.

9. Someone you love and who loves you.

10. Someone who is a good friend.

So if you are smart to follow along the lines and weave it into your online dating profile, there is a chance that you might be snapped up.

“How To Tell If She’s Ready To Be Kissed”

I used to have no idea if a woman was ready to be kissed.

I could be sitting there talking to her, thinking to myself “Wow, her lips really look nice…” but I didn’t know what to do next. This would often leave me kissless, and many times kissless for good, as I didn’t get another chance.

Here’s what I do now:

If I’ve been talking to a girl, and I want to know if she’s ready to be kissed, I’ll reach over and touch her hair while we’re talking and make a comment about it. I’ll say “Your hair looks so soft” and just touch the tips of it.

If she smiles and likes this, I’ll reach back over and start stroking it again, but this time I also glance down at her lips and back up to her eyes a couple of times. If she lets me keep touching her hair, I know that she’s ready to be kissed.

By using “The Kiss Test” I’ve been kind and complimentary, but by being very SUBTLE about it, I haven’t given her anything she can object to. I now have a way of knowing if she’s ready to be kissed that NEVER gets me rejected—and I know within 5 minutes what it used to take me hours or days to figure out…

A Secret Women Know But Men Don’t

By David DeAngelo

I’d like to tell you a story…

It’s a story that you might find strangely
familiar. Don’t be alarmed.

Once upon a time, there was a man who was very
attracted to a particular woman.

At first, she was just another attractive
woman… but the more he got to know her, the
more he began to feel attracted to her… and
the more time he spent with her, the more that
attraction grew into a deep emotional
attachment and affection for her.

But there was one problem.

As his emotional attachment grew stronger and
stronger, he also grew more and more insecure.

Why?

Because he couldn’t tell whether or not she
felt the same way towards him.

Sometimes she would say things like “You are
so important to me” and “I’m glad that you’re in
my life”… but nothing ever progressed past the
“friendship” stage.

There was an occasional hug, an occasional
kiss on the cheek from her… and once she even
held his hand for a long time while he talked
about an emotional issue.

But something was wrong with the picture.

She just wasn’t acting like a woman that was
“falling in love”. She was acting like a friend.

The insecurity that he felt became a spiral
that amplified itself… and the more insecure he
became, the more afraid he grew of “screwing
things up” by kissing her or asking her to be
his girlfriend.

Plus, the more insecure he became, the less
time she seemed to want to spend with him.

After spending many days and nights obsessing
over this girl, the man finally arrived at the
conclusion that if she only knew how HE FELT,
that she would feel the same way.

So he made a bold move.

He TOLD HER how he was felt.

He confessed that he was in love, and that he
would do anything to be with her.

She looked at him with compassion in her eyes
and said “Thank you… I really mean that… but
I don’t want to mess up our friendship… you’re
too important to me…”.

This only confused the man more.

He didn’t know how to take it…

Did it mean that she really loved him too, but
that she was afraid of something?

Did it mean that she wasn’t ready for a long-
term relationship?

Did it mean that she didn’t love him, but that
she was trying to give him a hint?

Did it mean that he hadn’t tried hard enough?

Did it mean that he needed to put everything on
the line and REALLY let her know how he felt?

He finally decided that he couldn’t go on like
this anymore… he had to be with her.

He had to make sure that she knew just how much
he wanted to be with her… so he took a big step,
bought her a symbolic gift, and wrote her a long,
long letter… again confessing his feelings.

And then the unthinkable happened.

She didn’t reply.

He called her three times a day for almost a
week before reaching her.

She made an excuse about being very busy, and
said “I’ll try to give you a call soon, I have
to go”… and hung up…

…but he never got a call back.

Over the following months, the man tried
desperately to understand what went wrong… and
what happened.

THE END

OK, I’m back.

Now, wasn’t that a sweet story?

Heart warming, huh?

I know, I should keep my day job, and not take
up writing romance novels…

Now, let’s talk about that story.

That story is basically a MYTH.

And I’m not talking about FICTION here.

I’m talking about a story that rings true for
a great majority of men. A story that is timeless.
A story that resonates at a deep level because you
can IDENTIFY with it.

And why does this particular story resonate for
most men?

Because we’ve all been there in one way or
another… at one time or another… and many of
us have been there OFTEN in our lives.

Another thing that gives this particular story
a lot of power is the powerful negative emotions
that it stirs… as a result of the powerful
negative experiences that it reminds us of…

Stories and situations like this one really
FASCINATE me.

They fascinate me because I see them as an
opportunity to UNDERSTAND and SOLVE the puzzles
that they represent.

In this particular situation I think there is
a solution.

And it lies in understanding a secret that
women know but MEN DON’T.

And that secret comes down to the reality that
if a woman isn’t ATTRACTED to a man, all of his
attempts to confess his love, convince her to
like him, and court her BACKFIRE.

In other words, they not only DON’T WORK,
they actually make things WORSE.

In other words, the very things that a man does
to try to make a woman LIKE HIM make her NOT
like him. They make her run.

All those great intentions and emotional
dedication actual cause the man feeling them to
do things that make her go away.

It sucks.

And I hope that by explaining the process of
how this happens to you I’ll help you avoid this
painful situation in your own future…

THE “INSTANT EWWW”

I’m always fascinated by the idea that we
humans don’t always understand the message that
we’re communicating to others…

So often we think that because we WANT to
communicate a message that others are going to
NATURALLY understand what we’re trying to say.

Have you ever seen a guy in a foreign car
that has wheels on it that cost more than the
car itself… with his stereo blasting… and
a muffler that somehow AMPLIFIES the raw sound
of the 4-cylinder motor…?

Have you ever thought to yourself “I don’t
think that car is communicating the message to
women that he thinks it is”…?

Yea, I have too.

Well here’s the deal:

If you do something to “let a woman know how
you feel”… but she isn’t ATTRACTED to you, then
it’s going to backfire.

It’s going to trigger a feeling that like to
call the “Instant Ewww”.

The Instant Ewww is just as powerful as the
physical and emotional response of ATTRACTION.

Once a woman feels it, YOU’RE DONE.

It’s over.

It’s like hammering a RAILROAD SPIKE into
the coffin.

Once a woman feels the Instant Ewww, she will
start behaving differently.

In short, she’ll disappear.

So where did I get the concept of the “Instant
Ewww”?

I got it from WOMEN.

I have actually heard SEVERAL women use the
word “Ewww” when describing how they felt about
a guy that was “confessing his love”… of course,
these were guys that weren’t loved in return.

So what causes the Instant Ewww?

And why would a woman feel it towards a man who
was trying to be nice… a guy who was giving her
a gift or telling her how he feels?

Because if you think about it from HER
perspective, you’ll realize that the moment a
you do something to “confess”, you have created a
TURNING POINT in the relationship.

Up until that point, you were harmless.

I mean, women always know how men feel.

She already knew you wanted her.

She knew it from the beginning.

But now that you’ve started pursuing her and
talking about how you feel, you’ve created a
NEGATIVE TENSION that is VERY uncomfortable.

You’ve triggered an emotion that is repulsive
to women. And it does repel them.

In summary…

You can’t “make a woman like you” or “change
how she feels about you” by doing nice things for
her…

Doing “nice” things for a woman who isn’t
attracted to you HURTS you. It backfires. Worse,
it creates the “Instant Ewww” feeling that makes
it so she’ll NEVER like you.

Men make this mistake over and over again in
life because they’re doing what MAKES SENSE to
them. They’re doing it because they don’t have
an understanding of ATTRACTION.

I mean, If you have a friend, and you like
them, and you want to make them like you more…
and you do some nice thing for them, they will
probably like you more.

On the other hand…

If you have a woman that you “like” in a romantic
way, and she doesn’t “feel it” for you, and you
do something nice for her because you want HER to
like you more, it will BACKFIRE… and she will
not only NOT like you more, she will most likely
distance herself from you.

Guys think that they need to communicate when
they like a woman… as if that’s part of the
necessary process of getting a girl.

In their minds, it goes like this:

Like her>Tell her you like her>She likes you

Well remember… if you follow this pattern
yourself with women who aren’t ATTRACTED to you,
then it’s going to BACKFIRE.

If she’s not into you, then it goes like THIS:

She thinks of you as a friend>You tell her you
like her>She gets the “Instant Ewwws” and never
wants to be around you again…

THE ANSWER

There are really TWO answers to this problem.

The first answer is what to do if you’re in a
situation where you like a particular girl, but
you don’t know if she likes you back.

DON’T GET HEAVY WITH HER.

Don’t buy her a big gift and write a love
letter…

Don’t send her ten dozen roses to her work
with a not that says “From your secret admirer”.

Don’t call her three times a day.

And DON’T CONFESS YOUR LOVE for her.

If you want to know how she feels about you,
KISS HER (and use “The Kiss Test” that you
learned on my website and in my book).

As a rule of thumb, don’t get heavier than
HER. Use SIGNALS from her to find out how she
feels… and if you don’t know how to read and
create those signals, then LEARN.

Asking a woman if she’s interested in your
in a romantic way, or if you are “her type” will
actually DESTROY the chances that she’ll like
you.

Really.

The SECOND answer is to not get into this
particular situation in the FIRST PLACE. Avoid
it entirely.

And how does one do that?

One does that by creating ATTRACTION from
the beginning.

One does that by understanding the dynamics
of how and why women have the physical and
emotional response of ATTRACTION triggered.

One does that by knowing what you’re doing
FROM THE BEGINNING.

And what’s the best way to learn THAT
skill?

I thought you’d never ask…

The very best way to learn how to make women
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I’ve spent several years now studying the
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What you DO have to do is LEARN.

It’s a skill, and I honestly believe that ANY
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But you’re not likely to figure it out by
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women feel ATTRACTION aren’t “obvious” at all.

In fact, many of them make no sense… and
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I’m telling you, this book will show you
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