Difference between Thai Dating Culture and Western Dating

For those who are searching for serious Thai relationship advice, here are some of the pitfalls you can avoid.

The most important thing is first choose the correct place when searching for a real serious Thai dating relationship. Find the correct mountain to climb and you can find the pot of gold waiting for you. One way to find decent Thai ladies is to join the largest Thai online dating site: ThaiLoveLink below:

However if you like to frequent the Thai nightlife scene, tourist hotspots eg, pattaya, Phuket, Thai bars, Thai discos and expect to find a decent Thai lady, then you must be seriously mistaken.

Decent Thai mainstream women do not hang around these sleazy places waiting for men to pick them up. Only those in the sex trade are waiting to pounce on foreign white men who are ignorant and easily tempted by their captivating smiles and taut slender bodies.

Western dating perceptions

Some foreigners have the view that the best way to treat a woman is to play her without consideration or emotion and then toss her aside for the next. Such behavior has brought great shame to those foreigners who are living in Thailand.

If you have this mentality and do this kind of behavior in Thailand, you are bound to lose and be condemned as a ‘farang’ playboy. Word of mouth will spread among her Thailand girlfriends, and soon you will not be able to find any dating Thai partners unless you move to other Thai areas.

Thai girls casual sex

Casual sex is often acceptable and even expected in the West. If you have experienced casual sex in Thailand, then they must be Thai girls who are in the sex trade because they can afford to be so carefree about sex.

In the west, it is not unusual to kiss or being physically intimate on the first date and by the second or third date close the deal. However in Thai dating culture, mainstream Thai women are conservative and the pace of dating is slow. You can expect the relationship-building phase with a mainstream Thai woman to be snail crawling slow.

Thai dating culture

For mainstream decent Thai women, you must take initiative and start showing interest in her before moving to the next step. Thai dating and relationships are very respectful because of family expectations. Respect for each other and respect for family is paramount to Thai society.

It is an absolute no-no to touch a Thai woman’s hair without her permission, or any other physical contact eg no leg touching, no breast groping and absolutely no tongue while kissing.

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Expat Dating Thai Girls Advice

Many foreign men have flocked to exotic Thailand to have a taste of dating paradise. However since most of them has never set foot on Thailand before, there are some tips to look out for when you want to date some Thai women.

There are many night scene places in Bangkok that cater to tourists and charges are expensive.  Patpong, Soi cowboy, Sukhumwit road are some of the famous tourist hotspots. You can look around at these places for an eye opening experience, however you should not let your guard down at all times.

  • do not be so gullible when touts approach you
  • always ask and know the price list when ordering

Know the difference between typical Thai girls and Thai women

There is a huge difference between a ‘typical Thai girl’ and ‘Thai women who date farangs’. Mainstream Thai women are very conservative when it comes to courtship. The term ‘Thai girls’ are used to describe prostitutes, bar girl or the freelancer that make their living in Thai discos, a-go-go bars and strip shows.

You do not go to these night scenes if you are looking for a long term relationship. You will never, ever find and date a mainstream Thai woman who are educated and affluent in these night scenes. Bar girls are only for short term fun, not marriage and players should bear it in mind and go in with their eyes wide open.

Why expat men are being duped

Many foreign men have been suckered into this quicksand. Rule #1: Never fall in love with a Thai bar girl. However with that being said, there are still many foreign men who thinks their Thai girlfriend is different from the rest.

Here is a typical story :
‘Joe’ went for a holiday in Thailand, discover a Thai girl who is special and different from the rest in a Thai disco, decided to take her out, discovered that both of them hit it off and developed a strong bond, Joe went back to his country and decide to continue this relationship with phone/email/sms . Sound familiar?

For some farang, it is difficult to resist temptation from a sexy Thai young woman in a fun, party like atmosphere. The happy-go-lucky attitude of the Thai girls who know how to flirt with lonely men.

Many foreign men has tumble down the path of no return and find themselves falling in love with the Thai lifestyle, the atmosphere and the first bar girl that smiles at him.

In a normal Thai relationship, a Thai woman would not introduce her boyfriend to the family until she is absolutely sure she would be marrying the guy.

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Dating Vietnamese Girls Advice

If you are going to date a Vietnamese girl online, it is better to understand the Vietnamese culture and values so that you can have a clearer picture before committing yourself in a serious relationship.

Vietnamese social values

When you marry a Vietnamese woman, you do not marry into her entire family. It is different from other Asian women such as Filipina women where you marry her whole family. When a Vietnamese woman get married to a Vietnamese man, she marry into his whole family. Obligations such as taking care of his elder parents as if it is her own are part of Vietnamese social values.

If you are highly educated and financially affluent, find a woman who has a similar education level as you so that she is able to take care of herself. Then you will not have to marry her whole family.

Vietnamese family culture

The most notable things are the importance of the family and respect for people who are older than you are. Family ties are strong in the Vietnamese culture. You have to know your place in a Vietnamese family; elder comes first eg when you are eating at a dinner, you have to wait for the elder to start eating before you can start.

One of the weak point is that Vietnamese people like to meddle in other people’s affairs unlike Western culture where people like to mind their own business.

Vietnamese girls marriage

There are many poor Vietnamese families who would want their pretty daughter to marry a foreigner if they think it will benefit them. Search deep and explore their motives before committing yourself. There are dozens of Vietnamese village ladies waiting to marry foreigners and Vietnamese bride tours are common in the villages.

Modern Vietnamese girls

Younger and modern Vietnamese girls are now more independant and open-minded especially those living in big cities such as Ho Chin Minh. Modern Vietnamese girls are not bound by restrictive iron rules or tradition like in the past anymore. A Vietnamese girl can decide to have sex with the one she love and trust, unlike traditional rules that she must stay virgin before marriage.

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How To Impress a Korean Girl

If you want to be part of the Korean wave where foreign men can date Korean girls easily, learn the Korean culture and speak a little Korean. Below is a section to teach you how to make a conversation with a Korean girl whether it is online or on a read date.

Simple Korean expression phrases

If you can make a Korean girl feel that you are putting in effort the learn about their culture, you will definitely be interesting to her and make in stand out in her eyes.

Hello : 안녕하세요 (annyeonghaseyo)

Will you be my girlfriend? : 내 여자친구가 되어줄래? (Nae yo-ja-chin-guga do-e-o-jul-lae)

Would you like to go out with me? : 나랑 사귈래요? (Narang sagwi-llae-yo)

I’m crazy about you : 당신에게 반했습니다 (Dangsinege banhaet-ssum-nida)

How are you? 어떻 게 지내세요? (eotteohke jinaeseyo?)

Sorry :     미안 합니다! (mianhamnida)

Thank you : 감사합니다  (kamsahamnida)

Goodbye : 안녕  (annyeong)

Pleased to meet you : 만나서 반가워요  (Mannaseo bangawoyo)

How to impress a Korean girl

“So what’s your job?” This will be the first question a Korean girl will ask you this in the first minute of conversation. This is because Koreans socially judged you based on your job and title.

  • Humor
    Making a Korean girl laugh makes you look interesting and a fun person to be with. Tell her a little joke or show her magic tricks that demonstrate you can provide her with value in terms of companionship.
  • Story telling:
    Telling her stories in your life gives some depth to your interaction with her and helps you both to connect emotionally. Make sure she tell most of her stories to you, as for most of the people, the most interesting subject is about themselves.
  • Start a unique conversation:
    Do not interrogate her and ask those usual boring questions about her family, friends, what kind of movies she like etc…Make  statements and continue from there. Use future talk and make it light and playful.

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5 Tips on Getting a Korean Girlfriend

If you are curious about Asian culture and want to find a Korean girlfriend, below are some tips that might help you in your quest.

1) Try to understand Korean culture

The mantra : “you must understand Korean culture” in order to understand your Korean girlfriend is very important. You got to understand and accept the Korean mindset and she will appreciate it very much.

Most young Koreans understand and speak little English due to their harsh education system. Korean social norm dictate that it is  embarrassing  to show their weakness to strangers.

Korean are shy and afraid of making mistakes in front of strangers however they know it is difficult to learn a foreign language. Try to learn some of Korean language and culture and Korean girls will definitely show great interest in you.

2) Do not compare Korean girls with other Asian girls

Never compare something Korean with Chinese or Japanese in a negative way. You should never pass negative comments about Korean in front of her. Do not even try to sing praises about her by comparing her to your Chinese, Japanese ex-girlfriends.

Young Koreans have a mixed feeling toward their national identity. They are proud of what Korea achieved for the past decades however due to the “small nation complex”, they still reveal a sense of inferiority and frustration.

3) You reap what you sow

Many foreigners thought they got a free pass to misbehave when they arrive in Korea. However most Koreans will sneer at those foreigners hanging out at Itaewon which is notorious for “Paradise for losers where Korean women are ruined”. If you are a foreigner going to Korea, avoid Itaewon.

Tourist traps best known to foreigners like Itaewon or Hong dae area are in fact the least favorite places for cool and rich Korean guys to hang out.

4) Chaste Korean girls are hard to get

Forget about those ignorant foreigners who boast Korean girls are easy prey. Those easy Korean girls hanging out with foreigners in Itaewon or Hong dae clubs are simply “losers” to the eyes of Korean guys.

Affluent and chaste Korean girls will not easily get hook up with foreigners as lovers. You can find high class Korean ladies in upscale places like Cheongdam dong or Karosu-gil in Shinsa dong. These pretty and elegant Korean ladies are hanging out  inside luxury cafes or restaurants privy to upscale Koreans.

5) Personal Hygiene

Foreigners are quite hairy by Korean standard. Try to shave and trim your body hair. Too much body hair might turn off Korean girls. Korean girls are extremely super sensitive about foreigners body odor. Bathe and wear deodorants.

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