Dating Japanese Girls Advice

There is something irresistible about Japanese girls that cannot be described. Maybe it is their shyness and their rigid cultural norms imposed on them that add to a Japanese girl’s mystic. Many foreigners are bowled over by Japanese girls’ beauty and demeanor.

If you are interested in dating “Kawaii” (japanese term for cuteness) Japanese girls, your door will be open to one of the exciting culture in the world.

In Japanese cultural many Japanese girls must doll up before they step out of the their house. Many Japanese girls resembles anime character that is a paradise for “otaku” guys.

Like all Asian culture, Japanese girls are brought up to place a lot of value on family life and show respect in service and humility.

Where to meet Japanese girls

You can meet a Japanese girl at a “nomikai” which is a party attended by friends or co workers. This is the place where they get to meet new friends or dates. A ‘nomikai’ can take place at an ‘izakaya’ (a bar or a cafe). If you are a foreigner, you probably have not heard or invited to attend such parties.

One of the fastest way is to meet Japanese girls online. JapanCupid is a free online dating service that allow the world to meet Japanese women who are looking to make connections that will last.

Japanese cultural norms

Japanese people prefer to be subtle, so you have to read between the lines rather than be blunt and direct. Sometimes you have to step off the gas and slow down as Japanese girls like to be cautious and every moment spent together, she is measuring you up.

Saving face is very important in the Japanese society and your actions must not let a Japanese girl “lose face” which means embarrassing her in situations where Japanese culture dictates.

How Japanese girls react in a relationship

Japanese girls are very curious and they do not start casual relationships however they are very needy. A Japanese girl will have have cries of attention, testing you to see how you would react. If you are cool about it, she will intrepret it as you are not serious about her.

If a Japanese girl try to ignore you, there are two possibilites:

  • it might simply be her wanting you to take the initiative and go after her
  • she is trying to end the relationship and she does not want to lose face and want as little collateral damage for you and her, which reinforce why she has been ignoring you

If you are her first serious partner, then she will probably be quite vulnerable and needs a lot of love and attention.

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  1. lee summers on November 15th, 2011

    thanks for sharing

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