Before you attempt to sign up for Asian online dating sites, are you aware that Asian girls are not some strange, exotic women that you hear about from your friends or sex adventures floating around the internet?

If you are looking for those cheap thrills, then you should not join Asian online dating sites but buy a plane ticket straight to the country itself.

Asian women stereotype

This is a very common stereotype among men: Asian girls are submissive housewives while western women are more assertive and independent. Many men are lured to the siren call of a mysterious, sensual Asian woman that is obedient and seductive.

The fact that Asian women are submissive is valid only up to a certain point. However it does not mean Asian women are weak and you can take full advantage of them.

Why Asian women are submissive

The real reason why are Asian women are submissive is because in Asian family social structure, they are brought up with clear traditional gender roles.

This means that she will have expectations of you to take charge and lead the way. Asian girl is unlikely to make the first move in any situation. However it does not mean you can be a dominating jerk.

How to win over Asian women

Dating an Asian girl may be very different than dating other girls. Most Asian women very feminine and truly want and desire a man that can take charge and care for them.

What an Asian woman truly want is a man that behave like a real gentleman. All that old fashioned stuff like walking on the arm, opening doors etc, works very well with Asian women.

• Do not attempt to impress an Asian girl

Learn to be yourself. The real reason why Asian girls are so attracted to western men is due to the fact that they are more direct, bolder in their approach and more laid back.

• Being polite pays off

Treat her like any other girl and you will earn her respect. Do not ask stupid about her race and get past your “yellow fever” stereotype assumptions.

Compare to western women, Asian women do not like to voice out their displeasure and tend to keep discomfort to herself. That’s something which makes Asian women so attractive.

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Differences between Chinese girls and Korean girls?

In the online dating scene, you will probably be looking at only pictures of Chinese girls or Korean girls. However most men from European countries might get easily confused between Chinese and Korean girls. They may all look the same and classified them as Asian women with slanted eyes.

You can easily tell apart between Chinese girls from China and native Korean girls from Korea. It’s mainly the facial structures but not necessarily the size and shape of  their eyes. Chinese and Korean girls can have small or big eyes.

Chinese girls from China

Chinese girls are the most natural beauty and they preferred less make up while Korean girls are into cuteness and they are immaculately dolled up.

Korean girls

Interwining history of Korea and China

Koreans take pride in their country’s continuous survival against foreign invasions, however Korea was finally invaded by the Manchus in 1627 after which the Joseon dynasty recognized the suzerainty of the Qing dynasty of China.

Due to the closeness of the borders and past history of both countries, Korean culture was based on the philosophy of Confucian principles from China. Buddhism and the written Chinese script was brought to Korea by the Chinese.

“Chinese” actually includes a lot of different races and languages. Mandarin is the spoken language in China and there is only  one type of written language . The majority of ethnic group are Han Chinese.

Migration and  interbreeding caused Koreans to look like Chinese people.  “Chinese” should be used in the same way as “European” and not in the same way as “English” or “French”.

Physical appearances

To be honest, you can’t really tell. There are Chinese women who have big round eyes, some who have double eyelids, some doesn’t have slit/slanted eyes.

Most Chinese women have porcelain white complexion compared to Korean girls who are more tanned.

The majority of Korean girls don’t have natural double eyelids therefore it is very common for Korean women to have plastic surgery on their nose and eyes.

Fashion and dressing

With the luxury brands such as GUCCI, Louis Vuitton established in China, Chinese girls from big cities such as  Beijing, Guangzhou are more affluent and are more likely to be dress well. However there are still plenty of Chinese girls from countryside who like to wear traditional cheongsam for their online profile pictures and many need a lot of catching up in their fashion sense.

Korean girls are more fashion forward and they are more likely to doll up with heavy makeup. Long fake eyelashes, pink glossy lipstick, curly brown or highlighted tresses are the norm.

Cultural appearances

To avoid generalizing and giving stereotypical answers, as individuals, Chinese girls and Korean girls are all different depending on their personality and culture influences.

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There are growing numbers of Asian men, specifically in Japan, South Korea and Taiwan that are marrying foreign Asian women. In Japan, South Korea and Taiwan, where it is difficult for some men to find a spouse in their home country, a growing number of foreign Asian wives are “imported” from abroad.

In Asia, money can buy you love

In Asia, money can buy you love and a foreign Asian wife. The cost is between USD 6,000 and USD 12,000 for a man to choose and “import” a Vietnamese wife. Depending on different “supplier” countries, potential brides in Vietnam are expected to pay for listing with the marriage brokers.

International matchmaking agencies offer marriage package tours to “supplier” countries such as Vietnam, China, Thailand or the Philippines. The “fast food style” of marrying a foreign Asian bride enable men in the space of seven to ten days to choose a woman and start marriage procedures.

Meanwhile, the man returns home and within a few months the foreign Asian wife can join her new husband after immigration formalities have been completed.

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Is there true love by marrying an Asian bride ?

Whether the couple has found true love is another totally different matter. For now, each party has reached their own objectives; the Asian man has a wife with traditional values that are willing to stay at home and take care of children. For the case of the foreign Asian wife, she has secured a stable lifestyle and is able to provide for her family back in her homeland.

Asian bride phenomenon push factors

The majority of foreign Asian brides who migrate to get married do so of their own accord and not because of the perceived threat of bride trafficking.

These foreign Asian brides’ objectives are simple: to get married and migrate

Like most migrants from developing countries, they hope that migration will enable them to send money back to their families and to improve their own lives.

Why are Asian men forced to marry foreign Asian women as brides?

There are a number of factors influencing Asian men to marry foreign Asian brides. From the Asian men perspective, they have the responsibility to continue the paternal line by giving birth to a son and taking care of their aged parents.

Social pressure is extremely strong especially in South Korea where it is difficult for South Korean men to remain single and childless. Furthermore, a hectic working lifestyle left men with no time for dating let alone marriage. Therefore the easiest and convenient method is to marry a foreign Asian bride.

Are native Asian women to blame for the Asian bride phenomenon?

With the rapid economic growth in Asian countries such as Taiwan, South Korea, Asian women are highly educated and most of them are in the workforce. However the division of household tasks between spouses remain unchanged in Asian traditional family structure. Men are supposed to bring in the money and women are expected to take care of kids and household tasks.

Many Asian women are unwilling to settle for the traditional role of a wife and they are compelled to choose either work on one hand or marriage and motherhood on the other. At the end of the day, most of them preferred to keep their jobs and stay single.

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According to data released by South Korean Ministry of Gender Equality, more than 35% South Korean men are choosing to marry Asian women over local Korean women. This trend is not particularly limited to South Korean men. Asian men from rich countries such as Japan,Hong Kong, Taiwan and Singapore are also seeking women from South East Asia as brides.

Why are South Korean men seeking foreign brides?

It is because young Korean women who are economically independent prefer to stay single. Also highly educated young Korean girls are picky as they prefer an urban to a rural lifestyle.  Those South Korean men who are left out of the dating scene are fishermen and farmers.

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Which countries does these Asian brides come from?

South Korean  fishermen and farmers chose immigrant Asian brides, mostly from China or South-east Asia countries like Vietnam and Cambodia. Because of cultural and values similarities between China and South Korea, More than 47% of Asian brides come from China.

This is an interesting phenomenon because China has always been an exporter of Asian brides, Chinese men of marriageable age will find themselves without women to marry by year 2020.

The shortage of Chinese girls is due to China’s strict one-child policy that has contributed to gender-specific abortions, favoring Chinese males who can carry on the family line.

Why do these Asian brides choose to marry South Korean men?

Due to poverty in their families and because these Asian women want to improve their family situation, Chinese women, Vietnamese women and Cambodian women hope to have a better life.

Does these Asian brides live happily ever after?

As always there are cases where matchmaking agents or marriage broker agencies who “over promise and under deliver” that give the industry a bad name. Some of Asian brides end up with the short end of the stick, instead of a better life, they are stuck with husband who have few assets or who are ill, alcoholic or abusive.

However these cases are few and as long as safeguards are put in place by relevant authorities, the trend of marrying Asian brides is here to stay.

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Although online Asian dating services are becoming more popular and provide an excellent way to meet other Asian singles. Unfortunately the internet also open up novel opportunities for crooks and dishonest individuals to extort money from unsuspecting individuals.

In order to avoid any problems, it is better to be  more cautious. Here are some tips and suggestions for you to keep in mind:

Asian Dating Safety Tip #1:

• NEVER ever send cash to someone you have just befriend or chat online. Do not wire money to a person that you have chat online regardless of any reasons they gave you. eg my mother is sick and in hospital, she need to pay for medical bill

Asian Dating Safety Tip #2:

• See Asian dating safety tip #1

Asian Dating Safety Tip #3:

• Be suspicious of individuals who appear to be overtly persistent or pushy in their requests for money

What are the common Asian online dating scams?

Generally speaking, most of the established asian dating services are clean and fun, but there are still some black sheeps lurking around.

Here are some of the reasons they will give you:

• “I really want to meet you but I don’t have enough money to travel to see you.”
• “My family member or me require urgent surgery or treatment for a serious illness”
• “My family member or me has been a victim of a serious or fatal accident and you are the only person who can help me.”

Common examples of scams include requests for large sums of money to make payments towards plane tickets, legal fees, visa and immigration charges, medical expenses, marriage annulment fees etc.

How do I avoid Asian online dating scams?

First of all, you need to choose a reliable and established Asian online dating websites, with that being said, you still need some protective measures in case you are being blinded by love:

• If you feel you must assist someone to purchase a plane ticket, always buy the ticket yourself on behalf of the visitor and make sure the ticket can be refunded in case you need to cancel it

• If you must make any payments,  only do so after you have verified the invoice is genuine and pay directly to the organization
• If you do send money to someone, be suspicious of someone who requests more money as soon as they receive the initial amount, report them to the administrator of the Asian dating service

Some people in developing countries like the Philippines often request small amount of money to pay for expenses such as internet access or mobile phone costs to communicate with you.  Avoid sending any money to someone you have not met in person, under any circumstances. If you are not sure read Asian dating safety tip #1 again.

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